Monday, August 4, 2008

How to make yourself squirt

Firstly empty your bladder before doing this.

Get yourself aroused as you normally would. Masturbate for a while, and then begin:

The clitoris probably holds the key to female ejaculation for most women. If the clitoris is not stimulated a woman is less likely to become highly aroused. If she is not highly aroused, her paraurethral glands will not fill with fluid. If her paraurethral glands are not swollen she may not have a G spot. If her clitoris is not stimulated she is less likely to reach orgasm, preventing the rhythmic contractions of the pelvic muscles that expel and release the ejaculate. So quite simply, before you can go exploring for the G spot, you must master clitoral stimulation beforehand.

How to stimulate your G spot
The best way to stimulate your G spot is with your fingers. They are firm but flexible. They have feeling and give you feedback. However, using your fingers can cause a problem. They just are not very long. Plus, if one hand is stimulating your clitoris, it limits access to your vagina with your other hand. So in addition to fingers, a dildo and/or vibrator are usually required for finding and stimulating the G spot.

How to choose a dildo
The dildos that do have a good success rate are those that are curved near the tip, called G spot stimulators, and penis shaped dildos with a prominent ridge at the junction of the glans and shaft. Some women find hard plastic dildos work best, others, soft flexible ones. Others prefer slim dildos that they can be directed at a specific area within their vagina, others prefer their vagina to be filled and stretched to the maximum. If you are going to buy a dildo to use for G spot stimulation, be prepared to buy and try many. Any woman who is seriously considering using dildos needs to be aware that she will most likely have a collection of favorites, versus one special one.

I need to pee ?!
When you are about to ejaculate, you will get the feeling to need to pee (this is normal, as both fluids come from the same place). This is because both urination and ejaculation require a woman to be able to let go and relax her bladder sphincter and her pelvic muscles. If you keep your bladder sphincter closed and tighten your pelvic muscles, you cannot urinate or ejaculate. Women who want to ejaculate are advised to push out when the urge to urinate or ejaculate comes over them at the point of orgasm. Doing this gives your body permission to ejaculate.

Learning to ejaculate
The urge to ejaculate may not occur without there being stimulation of your paraurethral glands. This is likely to require the use of a dildo if you are alone. As you massage your clitoris, using your fingers or a dildo stimulate your urethra by massaging the top of your vagina; using only light pressure at first. Massage the full length of your urethra, from the opening of your vagina back into your vagina a couple inches. Keep up the clitoral massage. Try different pressures and strokes. Massaging the urethral opening may feel pleasant as well. Stimulating your urethra may cause you to feel the need to urinate, as is desired. Do not fight the urge; go with the flow, literally. Relax and breathe deeply.

If you find a spot that is highly sensitive, you may want to concentrate solely on it, but you may find it is too sensitive to stimulate directly. If your G spot is highly sensitive, you may find you are only able to tolerate its stimulation when you are very close to orgasm, when your pain threshold has increased. Keep massaging your clitoris and urethra. Continue to the point of orgasm. A slow build up, with lots of teasing, may help produce the greatest urge and strongest orgasm. When orgasm occurs, relax your bladder and press out as if urinating. If you ejaculate you will likely feel a new and strong sensation, if not, you will still experience a strong orgasm, so nothing is lost.


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Lauren said...

does squirting have a scent? im nervous as i masturbate myself that im peeing instead of squirting but the liquid doesnt have a scent.

Jessica said...

In general it should be clear and have little to no smell, your urethra actually closes up when you ejactulate, I always like to pee straight after sex but when I have a full on squirting orgasim I can't for about 10mins afterwards. Also you can feel it fill up in your vagina, and when pushed out it can be more like a flood/gush rather then a stream like when you pee. I guess everyone is different but I find when I watch porn on squirting half the girls look like they are peeing as the stream is so thin. Depending on what position you are in it can be more like a fountain. Also the orgasim you experience with this is extremely intense so that should be an indicater also.

Cassie-Keighleigh MacLeighann said...

Whenever i do this i feel almost as if im in pain and i cant keep going. I dont have any sex toys and dont intend on buying any. What could i do to stop myself from stopping durig an orgasm because my muscles tighten and it hurts almost but i feel regretful afterwards. Any suggestions? I am a virgin too and will be for a while

lilmomma said...

My husband wants me to achieve this but I have a hard time relaxing. What can I do to make him happy? I want this too, but my first orgasm was very intense when I was young an a it scared me.

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awall said...

I used to squirt way back when (although I didn't know I what it was) & a few guys said I had peed so then I became paranoid about peeing. Now I realize I've been incredibly close to squirting but was so paranoid about that peeing sensation that I must have tensed up & stopped it. I hope I can get back there.

Kimmy said...

Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU!! I've been trying to make myself squirt for the longest with no success. Using your methods, I actually squirted for the first time. It felt AMAZING!! I slowly built up my arousal, and just went for it. Next step is to see if I can do it with my lover. I'll keep you posted. :-)